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   Chapter 18 How to Build A Successful Relationship

Shadythree's PLAYBOOK By A. Royden D'souza Characters: 4295

Updated: 2017-12-05 19:03

The question you must ask yourself when you are in a relationship is, “Am I in this relationship because I actually love her, or is it just because of external pressure?”. Or are you with her just because you hate being lonely? If you are in a relationship for the above reasons, then it“s doomed to fail.

The only reason why you should be in a relationship is if you love being with that person. Remember one thing when you get into a relationship. Physical attraction is not enough to sustain a happy and healthy relationship.

As the relationship matures, you might not feel head over heels love everyday, you might even feel annoyed at her, but you must know that relationship is not just about romance. It is about compromising, thinking what the other person wants before fulfilling your own selfish desires.

Remember one thing before you go down the road of relationships. Physical attraction is going to fade away eventually, maybe in two years or five years or more, but true love, which is not based on attraction, but on commitment to the person who chose to be with you, that love is a choice. It might not be as good as the romantic love based on physical attraction, because you have to take care of the other person without expecting anything in return. It might ev

will resent you, which will finally lead to hatred.

Do not smother her by telling her what to do. She might try distancing herself from you just to get some freedom.

Don“t escape from responsibility

A happy and lasting relationship comes with responsibility. Both of you should be ready to accept your mistakes and shortcomings. It is your responsibility to keep her happy. And when something bad happens in a relationship, no matter whose fault, both of you should be ready to accept the blame. That is how you can make your relationship last.

Don“t criticize

Whenever you don“t like something that she does or says, explain why you don“t like it in a good way. Be gentle. Criticism will hurt her pride and might even lead to resentment.

Don“t be too blunt all the time. Never criticize about things they have no control over.


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