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   Chapter 17 RELATIONSHIP

Shadythree's PLAYBOOK By A. Royden D'souza Characters: 7691

Updated: 2017-12-05 19:03

Friend-zone is one of the most dreaded of all. When one person wants to be in a relationship and the other wants to be just friends for the sake of convenience, it is called a friend zone.

This usually happens to the gentle ones, also called as “emotional absorbents“. They are too kind and do not expect anything in return, except her love and respect. And this is not good for a relationship, where everything must be balanced and mutual. This might happen to girls too.

You cannot fully blame a girl for landing in the friend zone, because they cannot control who they are attracted to. If you are in the friend-zone, then it“s totally your fault.

Don“t believe that friendships can blossom into love like you see in romantic movies. This happens very rarely if not never, and it happens only if they have mutual interests and aspirations.

One thing you got to remember is that humans are always attracted towards what they can“t have. They need challenge. If you are too easy, no one will be interested in you. Put some thought into this and you will understand how people end up in the friend-zone.

Here are some tips that you can follow to keep yourself out of the friend-zone.

Make your intentions clear

Always make your intentions clear. One of the main reasons you land in the friend-zone is because you don“t let her know your true feelings. Be straightforward. Just tell her how you feel.

Don“t act too much like a friend. When you start seeing a girl make it clear that you want to be more than a friend. Some guys don“t ask her out, because they are scared of rejection. But it“s better getting rejected than ending up in the friend-zone.

If you think that she will return your feelings someday, you are digging your own grave. If she was really interested in you, she would have already shown some indication by know. Once you are in the friend-zone, it“s very difficult to turn back, or to turn it into a relationship.

Flirting is also very important when it comes to developing a relationship. You need to create a chemistry. Show that you are into her. Look into her eyes and tell her how pretty she is. Brushing a strand of hair behind her ears or small things like that, but don“t go overboard.

Don“t get too friendly

What I“m trying to say here is, don“t

the decision next time.

Keep some alone time, just for yourself. Make plans without her. Have some creative hobbies. It will add to your value. Try to be a little “hard to get“. The more unavailable you are, the more valuable you seem. But don“t be completely “invisible” all the time. Be available when she really needs you. Try to inconvenience your partner once in a while.

Escaping the friend-zone

This is kind of a last resort, when you have fucked it up too badly by obsessing too much over the girl and you have ended up in the darkest pits of the friend-zone.

This might seem a little difficult, but it“s absolutely necessary if you wanna get back in the game. The first step is to fall back completely. Minimum or zero contact, and absolutely no liking or commenting on social media. This must continue for almost ten to twenty days. If you find it difficult, get a new hobby to keep you busy. Once you have stopped the investment, you will slowly start realizing where you fucked up. Once you have passed these two or three weeks with zero contact, then her negative emotions towards you will be reset and you will have another chance at doing things right, but this time, be careful not to obsess too much and follow the rules of the game.

One of the reasons for being friend-zoned might be that she is high above your league, in which case these tips do not help much. My only advice is for you to concentrate on your career. Show her that you can have a future. Then you might have a chance.


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