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   Chapter 10 RELATIONSHIP

The Ultimate Dating Diary By A. Royden D'souza Characters: 6587

Updated: 2017-12-09 19:03


A Few Tips for Building a Happy And Lasting Relationship

Avoid Resentment

Proper communication is one of the best ways to avoid resentment. Whenever you don"t like something about him, something that upsets or irritates you, like the way he looks at other girls or something like that, just speak up. Don"t bury it, or it will only lead to resentment and hate later on. Constant communication and clarification is very important in a relationship. Most people think that just because they are in a relationship, they don"t need to communicate everything. But that is a wrong notion. Communication is one of the important factors that helps to build a strong foundation to your relationship.

Support your partner

You should always support your partner no matter what. When someone is saying bad things about your partner, always take your partners side. This is one of the most important things you must remember, because he expects you to be by his side. Don"t let him down. Whenever he says something about his work or something like that, always be supportive and never reply negatively. If you don"t take his side, then he will eventually stop sharing with you and treat you like another pain in the ass.

Learn to compromise

As the relationship goes on, it will become more difficult and challenging, as more of your differences begin showing up. There might be a clash of ideas. But you have to learn the art of compromising, sharing and caring. It requires practice, but remember, everything that is good doesn"t come easy.

Be loyal

Loyalty is the base of a strong relationship. Be loyal to your partner. Even when you are with your friends, avoid criticizing your partner. It may seem like fun, but eventually it will decrease your respect towards him. Even if your friends talk negatively about him, stay clear of it or defend your partner. It is important that you be on the same side. Even when you are with your friends or family, stick up fo

ave. Forget what has been or what is to be. Everyone has a baggage, but not everyone carries it around. Don"t let past failures creep into your happiness. Learn from your past, but don"t live by it.

Respect your partner

This is another important point to be considered. Respect your partner. Remember that both of you are equal. Don"t try to undermine your partner and don"t let him undermine you. Avoid sarcasm at all costs, especially if it's negative. Respect his decisions. Don"t dismiss everything he says.

Don"t take offense

Conflicts and arguments are natural in a relationship. It doesn"t mean you have to take offense every time the two of you get into a fight. Arguments don"t make a relationship stronger. It is what happens after the argument and how you make up, which will decide how powerful your relationship truly is. Instead of blindly venting your anger, try to find out the reason for this argument and find a solution. Don"t let a little conflict stand in the way of your love.

Tolerate and accept each other

No one is perfect, so learn to accept your partner for what he is. Never ever try to change him no matter what. Trust me, it will never end well. Remember that everyone is unique. You might have different aspirations, but learn to support each other.

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