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The Ultimate Dating Diary By A. Royden D'souza Characters: 5904

Updated: 2017-12-06 19:04


There is nothing more romantic than nature itself. It can be a date at the beach, or it can be some historic places. You can even hangout at your house, watching movies. You can practice music together if you are into it. Take some time to find the natural spots in your locality. You can utilize them for your dates later on.

Do something that involves physical activity. Something that will help you in building a chemistry. Even going to the beach or a picnic sounds reasonable. Or you can go to a zoo, art exhibitions if you are into it, museums etc. If you are a a little wild, you can go to a dance club, laser tag or something fun like that. Other options are hiking, visiting tourist spots etc.

Go someplace where you can have fun together. It is the intensity of your experiences together that builds an emotional connection, which is the most essential component of a relationship.

Do something where you can communicate naturally. It"s better than having forced conversations, at the end of which your excitement would have faded away and you wouldn"t even have built a chemistry.

And please don"t do the same stuff you did on the first date on the second date too. It is better if each date is unique. Try different places. Try different things.

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How Do You Know If He Is Really Interested

* He will pursue you.

* He will always keep in contact.

* He will communicate with you regularly.

* He will start introducing you as his girlfriend.

* He will call you by cute nicknames like bae, babe etc or whatever slangs they use nowadays.

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Things You Should Never Do On a Date

DON"T ACT NEEDY

Never act needy. Guys usually like independent women, and if you are too dependent on him, he will start taking you for granted and will eventually lose interest in you.

DON"T BE NEGATIVE

Don"t speak negatively in front of him. The more negative you are, it is less likely that he will think you are going to bring some sunshine into his life. Always have a positive outlook on life. He is dating you because he thinks you are going to bring some happiness into his life.

DON"T COMPLAIN

Do not complain about your friends, your family or your job. And do not criticize other girls. It isn"t an attractive quality. Even if he has taken you to a restaurant you don"t like, do not roll your eyes at him. Appreciate the effort.

DON"T POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA

You must keep your love life private. At least give it some months before you update your status. It puts too much pressure on your relationship.

DON"T REVEAL EVERYTHING

Avoid going too deep into personal details, unless he asks you to elaborate, and never answer in a monotone ( yeah, ok, sure …), speak in whole sentences. Please never talk about your weight and other personal stuff. It is a conversation to be had with your best friends

And one more advice, please don"t talk about religion, politics and

sex. Please don"t. It will destroy your date faster than a tornado.

DON"T ASK ABOUT THE NEXT DATE

Asking about the next date is a sign of desperation. If the date goes well, he will definitely call you.

DON"T CALL HIM FIRST

Try not to call him first. By doing that, you are making it very obvious that you are crazy about him, and once you do that, there won"t be any suspense and he will start treating you like a pushover. And do not text or call too much before the date. Even if you want, call once, after 24 hours.

DON"T JUDGE

Avoid judging him before the first date. Do not listen to rumors from your friends, and never jump to conclusions. Never have high expectations, or you will always end up getting disappointed.

DON"T COMPARE

Do not compare him to your exes, and never speak about ex boy friends in front of him. You have to avoid topics about exes at all costs or he will think that you are still hung up on the past.

DON"T BE LATE

Be on time, at least on the first date. It will give a good first impression.

DON"T OVEREAT

Keep it light. Do not eat too much. Even if you are a food lover, it is not a good sign to eat too much in front of your date.

DON"T BE OVEREXCITED

It is natural to be excited, but don"t cross the limit and do something foolish. Be cool and don"t try to fake anything.

DON"T BE IN A HURRY

Do not make quick decisions, especially your first time. Take your time and put a lot of thought before taking quick decisions. Anything done in a hurry will end badly.

DON"T OBSESS OVER YOUR APPEARANCE

If you have to obsess over your appearance, do it before the date. Do not waste your time running to the bathroom every five minutes. Concentrate on making good conversation instead.

DON"T USE YOUR PHONE

If you have your eyes on your phone while speaking, you might as well save some time by going home. It is a definite deal breaker, and never snap candid selfies on your first date, it is weird.

DON"T STALK YOUR DATE ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Do not go and like his pictures on facebook after the first date itself. It is clingy. Even if you want to send a friends request, send it after a couple of dates.

DON"T CROSS YOUR ARMS

Crossing your arms gives a bad impression. It gives him the idea that you are not interested in him and want the date to end.

DON"T BRAG

Do not brag about your achievements. Even if you want to, do it in a modest way. It is always better to let him ask first.

DON"T CALL TOO MUCH

If you keep calling him again and again, he will feel smothered and will start losing interest. Give him some space. Call him once in two days. Do not call just to check on him.

DON"T BE RUDE

Never be rude to people, especially not in front of him. He will be watching and will surely notice. Be polite to the waiter or to the cabby or anyone you talk to. Bitchiness is a least attractive quality. Trust me.

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